A: There are 2 experiences that I will always cherish. I was married for 23 years and throughout that time my partner and I fostered 5 children. Both experiences come from those. First, was the day I got to deliver my 3rd foster child in the hospital. An experience as a gay man I never thought I would get to receive. The next experience I never thought I would receive as a gay man was the opportunity to be called Grandpa. That's right, my 5th and final foster child kept in touch with me after aging out of the foster care system and at the age of 42, my 20 year old foster child gave me the most precious gift of a grandchild.
A: Along with many other people I have come to know, I enjoy my cheerful and positive energy. Do not be surprised if while we are out I burst into song or dance with the background music or just the music playing in my head. You will be hard pressed to find me in a bad mood as I tend to make the best out of any situation I am in. I try not to let one bad experience in my day ruin the entire day. There are so many other experiences during the day that outweigh that one bad experience. That is not to say that I do not have bad days that I just want to start over ever, I just do not dwell on them and anticipate the new day for new experiences.
A: I travel often, however not as far as I would prefer. I visit the beautiful west coast about 6 times a year when I am shooting my next film. I live on the border of Windsor and Detroit so I try and get away to America at least once a month with Detroit, Chicago, Cleveland and New York City as my favourite go to places to visit. Convince me to visit your favourite city.
A: What you need to know about me is that I do not have a sense of smell or taste (pre covid) and I have a form of colourblindness. So yes, I am broken. That means I do not need to be (although it is very welcomed) wined & dined at expensive restaurants. My pallet will not be tickled by the taste of an exotic steak or rare mushroom. I am just as happy and nourished by a simple home made meal or take out. Do not waste your money on me with fancy meals, save it for a night of drinks and dancing.
I apologize in advance if my outfit does not match when we meet, but that is why you will usually find me in my leathers or birthday suit when we do meet lol
A: For me this is important. I am by no means a professional and I am sure one would not suggest to follow my regime but it works for me and for now I am happy with the results. My secret is....I have no diet plan or workout regiment. I have not stepped foot in a gym in decades and I mostly eat chocolate and candy. Cookies are my favourite. I do not drive, so I walk or bike everywhere I go and I stay very active with dance. I am in the best shape I have ever been in, even when I was working out in the gym. I have a busy/full life and would rather spend my free time with friends or my puppies than in the gym or somewhere off counting calories.
A: This could be taken as a good or a bad attribute, and I will let you be the decider of that, for yourself. What distinguishes me apart from all other people is that I have 2 personas. By day, I am the biggest music theatre loving, bowtie wearing nerd around. Yes, I wear a bowtie everyday. I have a collection larger than Bill Nye the Science Guy. But by night, I strap my leathers on and I become a very confident and assertive thirst trap. Each persona is known to the other, but the extent to which they know I participate is limited in order to maintain my confidentiality and anonymity within those role's communities. I can be taken to the opera and enjoy and understand the story and musicality of the production, and as we leave the opera house, I can be found stripping out of my tux only to find I have been wearing a harness and leather jockstrap underneath and can be brought straight to the Eagle for a night cap.
A: In my spare time I am heavily involved in my local theatre community. I am a member of a musical theatre company and a dance theatre company putting on 2 major productions a year with both companies. I have taken roles on stage, back stage and under the stage depending on the casting requirements for the show but I have not missed a show since 2015, except for the hiatus the world had during the COVID-19 pandemic.
A: I am a very genuine and sincere man. I am very approachable and easy to talk and open up to. I attribute that to my listening skills. When you talk, you know you are being heard. I'm very attentive and am always taking mental notes. The next time we meet, you will understand that statement more clearly.
A: My specialty would hands down have to be my blowjobs. The moment my mouth is wrapped around a guy's cock, they go wild. No one has been able to explain to me why mine is so much different than others, just that its been one of, if not the best head they have received.
A: I live my life unapologetically. There is nothing that I do in life that I am ashamed of. If I have to hide or lie about something or am ashamed of it, I should not be doing it. My Grandmother may not agree with all of my decisions, but she can sleep at night knowing that I have made the best decision for me and that all my motives and intentions have been thought through and I am strong enough to handle the consequences that may come with them.