I think I make a good massage client. I've had a lot of massages over many years and have learned how to communicate openly and respectfully with a masseur. The both of us should know what I'm looking for and what my limits and his are so the masseur can take the massage where it ought to go without being micromanaged. I look for a masseur who knows a man's body and has the experience and technique to work on it effectively and creatively. For me the best massage is a mix of therapeutic, sensual, and erotic. And it's given by a masseur who's good at what he does in all three of those areas and mixes things up a bit. Where it goes is up to us . . .