A: Keeping a client out of jail.
A: When someone makes the extra effort for me, I do everything I can to reciprocate it in kind and make them feel as special as they made me feel.
A: My ink. Oddly my trademark biohazard is hardly unique. But who else has a sugar hominid skull and Mesopotamian iconography spanning 2 thousand years?
A: I meet my friends at the gay bar. And I’ll keep doing that as long as I have friends or there are gay bars
A: I read. I’m a closet academic and a lapsed lawyer. I subscribe to porn and investigative journalism so I know that good content is worth paying for.
A: My work is part of a portfolio that is a larger project. In the 80s and 90s, our community proved gay sex was worth dying for. My goal is to prove it’s worth living for too.
A: I’m a softie privately and I like that about myself. It gets me hurt sometimes but I won’t change it.
A: Haha. I got started with the encouragement of guys who liked seeing openly poz men perform. They will always be my first love because they are ride or die
A: Constantly traveling but about to make Las Vegas and New Jersey my home bases
A: Cheeseburgers, beer, and procrastination
A: Exercise is mandatory in this line of work but hitting the gym is always a chore for me. If we share a meal, I’m eating. I don’t count macros. Hell, I don’t even count slices. I used to party pretty hard and still subsist on caffeine and vaping. To sum it up I have a pretty regular guy lifestyle vis a vis health and diet. My politics are informed by my background in law and policy but they’re radical. I’m literate which when I was younger made me a precocious little shit. I like to think I’ve grown into it.
A: I fall in love easily. And I never really fall out of it. Once you’re in, you’re in for good. I don’t struggle to say I love you and I’m not afraid of affection even if my aloofness and masculinity make me hard to read sometimes.
A: I’d tell you that New Mexico makes the best affordable sparkling wine in the country. I’m from there. It’s an odd place to be from. I suppose I’d start there.
A: Viral kinship is very real to me. My values may be non-traditional, but I have convictions and know the difference between a rule and right and wrong.
A: I can see the good in most people. I know I’m character flaws, walking, so I try to extend others the benefit of the doubt. I like my “broad palette”. I’m ecumenical. I embrace men of all faiths.
A: A sense of adventure
A vape. Sorry. I’m that guy.
I’m a car guy. Yes, even, in New York
My network of friends