Successful Professional/Submissive Bottom Bear

I am a successful professional who is the boss at work but who loves to transfer his power and control to a hot dominant male who has a good heart, a beautiful soul, and a sadistic streak that cannot be denied. I love to be surprised. I love to be caught off guard. I love to be lead into new sexual experiences without warning. It all requires trust and communication and a safe word. But please don't ask my permission to spank me while "class is in session." Talk abut a buzz kill.