A: When i first meet people, it can come across that i dislike or don't want to be a friend to you. But that is NOT the case, especially if we are just meeting. I always think " How can i hate/ dislike someone when i know nothing about them?" That is just the way i have developed to meeting new people. Coming from being the youngest of 5; 4 brothers and 1 sister, i have learned to be a survivor. So it's not that i am being a bitch, or asshole, i am just guarded for the initial meeting and maybe till #8. I give everyone a chance and look on the optimistic side of things, even for people who have done me wrong. I don't forget, i do forgive, and i always hope for the positive side of things. I don't set expectations, as that just creates disappointment, and i have been disappointed Far enough to will more into my life. Also you should know that I LOVE to get a mans tool to the base and you hold me down on it till i am getting you sloppy wet for you to take control of the other end as you like and share if you want. The more the merrier as i was taught growing up.
A: People often tell me that i have stunning eyes, but beyond the surface..... Loyalty, compassion, and i somehow have a way to be a person that can calm a situation down, just with my physical presence. I am often a voice of reason and understanding, not only seeing each side of any situation, but i can read some of the unspoken gestures that we as humans make when we feel one way about something. The micro-expressions are a natural language to me. Some people also tell me that my Psyche is stronger than i am aware of yet and to harness and learn how to access it and control it and tap into it.
A: i am up front and straight forward. I don't play games and don't tone down what it is that is on my mind or what i have to say, so be sure that you want to hear it as i won't filter anything. I wish that more people were like that. Especially in the gay world. all the time i see and hear of the BULL SH*T that goes on day after day.... Cut the crap and use honesty, along with the social skills we have for holding a conversation. a true conversation........
A: my niche,........hmmmm....... i am not sure that i have found my niche. I personally believe that there is more than one thing that i am meant to be doing on the world. So to just say that this one thing is my one thing, would not be possible. I have many talents in many different ways in my life. my way to showcase my said talents is through my art. so if your interested in finding out who i am and really what makes me go tick tick tick. let me know and we can set up a time to go through my art collection.
A: To go an extra mile, you must not know how hard my life already can be....... now you want more..... Kidding. I was a very big contributor for my community in the volunteer sense. Any time there was a fundraiser, food drive, potluck, etc.... i was always ready to lend my hands, head(above the shoulders), skills in the kitchen, handyman work you name it..... i would be there to get to the goal, and make sure that everyone involved was happy, having a good time and know that they were appreciated. no matter what it was that they were doing. they knew that their presence was needed and that there were plenty of people that were grateful for them.
A: my greatest life experience would have to be when i made the last catch for the third out to force the if game when i played in the Gay Games 10 and won a silver medal, after 11 games in less than 36 hrs. my field position on the team was Left Center in the outfield, a position that is the mind out the outfield, adjusting the others to the place where the batter will be going to hit the ball. It requires a lot more than people realize to be in that position, also the same goes for the shortstop on the infield.
A: one talent that i have is to be able to get both feet behind my head. call it the human pretzel.
A: in my spare time i like to go to the Beach, ocean, rock collecting, hiking, looking for waterfalls, take photographs, Fractal Burning, Resin pouring, cook, Draw, listen to music, chop wood, go on a day drive, or an overnight trip to anyplace close by.
A: For Fun, i like to make art, using acrylic as the medium, or electricity as another medium,
A: I am a loyal person, that truly cares for and about others.
A: This depends on the situation; i am completely fine with staying home if i have a good reason, yet i am also always up for an adventure, if the weather is good and the trip is roughly planned out. Roughly planned because life throws a wrench into them sometime and spontaneity is always a factor.
A: none. i eat what i want , i do not count calories and feel no need to work out. Although i would like to gain more muscle, so The work i do is always physically demanding, that way i check off two boxes at once.
A: my lifestyle; well since i was young i gave always been a night owl. I like to go to parties and meet up with friends and new people.
A: that i am insecure about myself. I am greatly appreciative for my genetics, but just don’t see what others do.
A: people tell me that i have a great energy, the ability to be a calming presence in a tense and high pressure environment.
A: laughter, gardening, sunsets, the ocean, friends