I’m a licensed architect in California. I plan to do more part time design work after I get back to San Diego. I love it and miss it. I’m a smart, dedicated worker. Architects are sadly way underpaid, even in a hot job market. That’s much of the reason this is now my primary job vs a side gig.<br />
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My partner and I own a farm in San Diego County. I work this job to make my primary living, but also to invest in our burgeoning agricultural business. It’s important to me to support our shared dreams. <br />
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The money I make doesn’t go toward lavish vacations, drugs, or wild experiences. It all goes toward building a future for my family. And a good chunk goes to Uncle Sam, about 38% for small business owners in CA, and a bit less in TX.<br />
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Looks fade, and I want to retire well before I die. The farm is my retirement plan and exit strategy. I can’t do this forever. Even though I’m talented, looks are unfortunately more important than talent to most clients, especially new clients. My regulars come first for the sex appeal and end up really liking me and returning for my talent and good vibes.

I enjoy arts and culture. Visiting museums and exhibitions is one my favorite leisure activities.

I consume gay films, shows, and pop culture. Drag shows are always fun.

I listen to a lot of podcasts and audiobooks on various topics from science to economics to geography, to trivia. I’m a well rounded critical thinker, and an inquisitive soul. Learning new things is a lifelong passion. I’m full of random, obscure facts.

I provide the perfect balance between therapeutic and sensual/erotic massage techniques. Usually you have to sacrifice one for the other, but not with me. It’s incredible, every time, on both fronts. I offer a variety of spa services to enhance the experience. My body scrub is popular. I offer my own take on a hammam style treatment that is gentler than Korean spas, but more thorough than your typical masseur.

I’m a genuine, straightforward man. No games. I leverage my emotional intelligence, intuition, maturity, and strong sense of self to keep me grounded and make clients feel at ease.

Some clients feel comfortable enough with me to open up about things they haven’t told anyone for 30 years. I’m not a counselor or a shrink, but I am a great listener, and empathetic. Definitely the Pisces in me shining through. I don’t buy into astrology, but I’m all about the psychology of confirmation bias! People feel naturally comfortable and connected with me.

I’m not the prettiest, fittest, most muscular, youngest, or newest guy around, but I am real, talented, and I take pride in being myself. I don’t lie about my age. What you see is exactly what you get.