A: That’s up to them, there’s many things they could want to know 👋
A: I'm ok with being alone. I used to hate it. I think being alone is where all the self improvement happens. No one else but you and your thoughts. It gets real personal, sometimes uncomfortable. But that's when you make breakthroughs about yourself and capabilities.
A: I like to read, mostly books on psyche theory, self help, or tragic dramas. Also film, I love raw movies like "Marriage Story" or "American Beauty".
A: Checing in with myself. I stay grounded and ask "is this where I want to be?". "Is this going to get me to where I want to be?".
A: Yoga. I like to unwind mentally, physically, and spiritually. Or boats. Take me on a boat with the open water and you'll see a boy discovering a tree full of gifts on Christmas morning.
A: At heart I'm an artist. An idea maker, A dreamer if you will. Being on the outside my whole life I developed a sense of the world that most others don't have. I interpreted things and asked questions that others simply didn't care or see the need to be answered. I wake up and mediate, I drink my coffee with collagen, I journal about my thoughts or dreams from the night before. And depending on the day I'll start working. I have a few screenplays and a book in the works.
A: I enjoy my ability to heighten the room at any time, if I want to. There's been multiple instances where my friends have said my presence brightened their day. You have to read the room though, if someones having a bad day and they WANT to sit in the grief while it passes, let them.
A: I'd tell you how I grew up feeling like there wasn't a space for me in the world. How I was some pale ginger kid that didn't know who he was. I'd tell you about how it took years for me to learn the right things and unlearn the wrong things to get me to where I am at today. And how much more there is to go!
A: Dairy free. Breakfast is eggs, chicken sausage and a bagel. Chipotle bowl for lunch and Salmon with veggies for dinner. Throw in a protein shake or cookie somewhere in between and I'm set. Thats for bulking. Keto works wonderful for me when I try to cut.
A: The Killers song "Mr. Brightside" was about me. No, but really I think my ability to stay positive has definitely attracted a lot of interesting people into my life. I think outside of the box, I stay grounded and let the present moment happen, knowing that the best we can do is to work through the present in an enjoyable fashion. My sarcastic, sometimes dark wit has its charms too.
A: The boyfriend experience
A: I love to travel. During the 2020 election I fled to the Dominican Republic for 3 months in case shit hit the fan. I remember watching the January 6th Capitol Riots from my bungalow by the beach. While I do enjoy the leisure aspect of travel, I'm much more fascinated by immersing myself into the culture. I like to make friends with the locals. I want to get to know their lifestyle, hobbies and food. Sit down and have a human conversation, despite the language barriers. It reminds me that despite all the external differences, we are all really the same.
A: Probably a crop top and my glorious wavy hair. Yes, I'm a Leo.
A: Starting a LGBTQ+ focused podcast that inspired and touched nearly 30,000 people. Mostly young queer people who felt unseen, afraid, alone, hopeless and like they had no place in this world.
A: I used to be insecure. It's something that takes a lot of work and self reflection to get through.
A: Topo chico in a glass bottle, Facial moisturizer, coconut water, iced coffee, a good book