Lakeview Guy
I generally prefer arranging things in advance. Pretty seldom do I look for top- or bottoming, but there are other activities and things I enjoy (see hashtags for an idea).
I am into a variety of guys and pretty open-minded. I'd really like to make reliable connections to others with similar interests. It's unusual but amazing when you find a man who is readily able to deliver a surprising and enjoyable experience, and even to change how you perceive the wider world. Like finding a rare gem.
Shared chemistry is vital, along with being genuine, trustworthy, reliable, interesting, and skilled in things you do. Understanding that every one of us is a person, and showing due care, consideration, and discretion. Being a professional and getting paid makes all of this more relevant, not less. Physical beauty on its own can never replace a quality character.
Always crystal clear, accurate, and precise in my thinking, but sometimes cloudy, uncertain, and temperamental in how I feel. And I am always in touch with reality, even if generally disconnected and closed off from the world. Esse non videri. Fantasy is occasionally fun, but I've learned to expect only what I and those around me are capable of realizing, and am thus less likely to be disappointed.
If something or someone pulls it off, and even better than expected, then that is a genuine delight. I appreciate when such things happen, because they tend to be infrequent and not long-lasting.
My username comes from when I lived in North Dallas for a bit.