A: If you've seen any of my porn videos, I'd like for you to know that the person behind the actor is not the same as what gets put on screen. Yes, there is authenticity in the scenes you see, but a part of that is what I'm called to bring on screen - hot action! In real life I am definitely a passionate fucker, but I prefer human connection and tenderness to be a part of the equation if we're talking about my natural tendencies. I'm a person, as are all s, and it doesn't feel good to be treated like an object to use or be used by, as much as porn might project that intense persona.
A: I'm a bit of a jack of all trades. I play soccer as a goalie and enjoy both playing and listening to music (I play a bit of piano, guitar, and like to sing). I also sew, draw, watercolor, and dance when I can!
A: That varies. Some days being a human is so difficult that getting out of bed seems like the extra mile. Others I will break my back and turn the sun inside out to make sure that a struggling friend has the support they need. I hold everything I do to the highest of expectations, so the extra mile is my standard.
A: I have too many answers to this! I sing, play guitar, dance (semi-professionally, not in the club), illustrate, water-color, hike, backpack, kayak, watch TED talks, read, the list goes on and on.
A: There are too many to count. I came from deep depression in my younger years, which has painted my adulthood with a perpetual sense of awe, gratitude, and wonder to be out of the whole emotional-prison thing. One of my favorite moments, though, was watching the sun rise over the mountainsides of Hallstatt, Austria overlooking a lake. I was the only one awake at the world viewpoint. I was dancing to a serendipitously timed song about watching the sun rise from the arms of the Lord, tracing patterns in the thin powdering of snow on the metal landing. I finished the song and looked at the art I'd made on the ground at the very moment the sun swept across the peak in a flash, lighting up the ice crystals beneath my like a sheet of diamonds. It was the first day I learned how to smile from ear to ear.
A: I'm crazy enough to do this!
A: My humanity is one of 'em. I learned young not to lose that doing this work. We're all just ordinary people when you strip off the labels...and the clothes. I enjoy connecting on a real level, even if it is just for an hour of fun.
A: Finding new niches.
A: Some seasons I travel every weekend of the month. Such seasons leave me in penultimate need of months at home! Hahaha!
A: Cooking is probably my weakest human skill, or among the weakest! If it's easy to make, it's in my fridge. My fitness regimen varies. Some seasons I'm doing yard work constantly, others I'm in a dance company, others I move furniture for extra money. Usually I tie my exercise in with my lifestyle as opposed to tying myself down to the gym.
A: I live my life without limits. My goals get more and more lofty, but none will exceed my reach. I also find joy to be a part of this journey on a day-to-day basis as opposed to holding achievement as a prerequisite for joy. Happiness is already its own success.
A: I have more sides to me than you will ever see. No one has seen them all. I will call upon whatever aspects of myself that my intuition says will benefit you the most.
A: I would probably spend most of our time in playful banter, to be honest! This profile is authentic and honest; that runs the risk of painting my communication style as more dreary than it is. I'd likely stay focused on you and let conversation be the dance that it is. There's no one answer I could put here.
P.S. If you bring me to the beach with good food and wine, consider yourself a regular because you'll have made me so happy! :D
A: I am not in this business to do work that hurts my body nor my heart anymore. I used to have no boundaries doing this work. Now I will kindly let you know if something is out of my comfort zone. If I have to disappoint you, it will *never* on personal grounds, merely on protecting my well-being because it's worthy of being championed.
A: What I most enjoy about myself is that I can find a way to uplift just about anyone, no matter how different they are from me. I'm an empath, so whether in conversation or sex I know how to *listen*. Only then can you understand someone's needs, and when you understand someone's needs you can finally meet them.
A: Friends, Purpose, Oxygen, Humor, and Dairy