A: Perfect my DJ'ing, learning to trade and having really great intimacy and sex
A: Hyper vigilant and attuned to others psychology…. And the orals are spillage that you don’t want to miss
A: I left a huge senior healthcare role in March 2021. We’ve got to make this work lol. I also give the most amazing oral
A: Being a rescuer, everything is always extra, more than what was needed. It’ll all come back from the universe one day.
A: The loss of a parent at 7 years old and having the honour (and pain) of getting to care for them at stages. It led me to 15 years of healthcare and transforming services and that teaches you so many lessons.
I still have much to learn in life though even at 39 having done what I’ve done
A: I'm having to relearn this post-pandemic. I'm learning to DJ which has been great fun and also allowing me to reconnect with what I loved for many years.
A: Gosh I’ve gone from having nothing, to having it all, to losing it all again and have to rebuild. Life experience has made me who I am. Whilst some of that experience has been massively painful, to understand how that pain drives current behaviour is important.
We can’t change the past and we certainly can’t predict the future, we just got live in the moment and make of it what we can.
A: So pre-pandemic it was at least 4 times a year - mostly Europe but would always have one big holiday, more often than not in PVR in Mexico in the November time. I hate winter so it’s a great time to get some sun for me.
A: Commitment, determination and passion
A: My fitness is AWFUL I’ll be the first to admit however my diet is pretty good. I used to work at a well known fast food change when I was 16 and it made me morbidly obese and so that was a big wake up call to maybe only eat it once a week lol
A: Toothbrush, aftershave, hair powder, medical aesthetics, SPF (Get your SPF on kids 😂)
A: You don’t get second chances
A: My loud northern gob
A: I have a profound dislike for disrespect and dishonesty
A: Oh jeez if there’s wine then you’d probably get the lot - I tend to overspill after wine lol
A: That even after 39 years I continue to learn new things about me, being proud of ongoing bravery when pushing through moments that would potential cause fear or anxiety or discomfort due to (unnecessary) emotions etc