In-Shape Bi-sexual Thirtysomething from the South

I'm an attractive married bi guy who must play safe and discrete and who takes care of his appearance. I like to hire high-quality, attractive guys who appreciate a genuine connection and can be ultra discrete when I travel for business. Safety is of paramount importance. Over the last several years, I've found I have been able to hire some of the best. Reciprocal connections are most important to me. I want to spend time with men of substance who are intelligent, non-drug users, responsible, genuine, and easy to be around. I'm not a "douche bag" and am not really into douche bags - or that type of behavior (you know the type who thinks they are God's gift and only about the 'transaction.') Most of the time I like to engage in multi-hour engagements. I look for value and quality. I'm versatile and really get turned on by truly versatile guys...I also really enjoy erotic and tantric massage. I like to drink whiskey and enjoy poppers, but not to a debilitating degree. I do not smoke or do any type of drugs and appreciate the same from those with whom I engage.