Seeking sex-positive role play

Explaining what I'm after is tricky because so much depends on chemistry, but generally I'm looking to explore my dominant side with another masculine guy in a safe space. I've had a couple of buddies in the past for this and I'd like to keep it going. I enjoy the mental side as much as the physical.

Where does trust fall into all of this? Frankly, I'm new to the scene, but I figure sexual health is as important as physical and mental health, so why not find a pro? A typical time with me would probably include exploring your body, servicing my cock, and…not to be cliche… talking a bit. I would love to be surprised by a man whose conversation can keep up with his body.

I have some specific kinks and am a total top outside of a relationship. I haven't sucked dick in 8 years and have no urge to. If you're playful and grounded, let's discuss the rest. All limits tested and all hard limits firmly respected,