Playful and Creative Good Times

I enjoy erotically erudite men. I'm often told I look a lot younger than my age.

I'm a psychotherapist and sex therapist by profession; I study sex and sexual behavior and I'm also a writer and author - so I write about sex too.

I also love rentwork because much of my focus is on my career and I often don't have the time or desire for dating. I also dislike apps and have no tolerance for the silly games a lot of gay men play around dating and mating. Mind games are fun when they're a conscious, agreed upon part of an encounter.

I am a very kinky fellow. I can be passive or aggressive depending on the mood, but I’ve become more subby the older I get. Young Alpha men turn my head. It's fun to let go of control when my professional life is all about control and taking care of people. I have a lot of fetishes and not many things I won’t do/try if the chemistry and vibe is good.

I'm very visual and love clothes and costuming. I'm passionate for guys in very tight fitting jeans, tee-shirts, muscle shirts, Speedos, skimpy underwear/swimwear and any bulge and butt enhancing gear. I also really like a man to wear a belt – a wide, thick, heavy belt. In my experience, they can come in handy.

I also love being massaged! Erotic/sensual massages are my favorite and a great way to get acquainted if it’s our first session together or as a warm up to other fun.

I am open, but do have a bit of a type. Check out my buddy list and you'll see it. I generally gravitate toward white dudes, but not exclusively. Respect it. No haters.

I have a few pet peeves, but they're important:
- Let’s not check out phones or text when we’re together.
- Hygiene is super important, unless we're doing a scene where we negotiate something different.
- No PNP
- I am sober – no alcohol please. 420 and brown bottles are fun though.
- Beards are a dealbreaker. Just not into it. I like to see men's faces.
- Piercings.