A: I work really hard to be empathetic. I'm not the center of the universe (unless that's what we're playing at on a given night. lol) and being empathic and open to the idea that your experience is just YOUR experience and not everyone else's, allows for some really beautiful moments of humility, self-realization, discovery, and love...as cheesy as it might sound.
A: Plants, the gym, travel, music, adventure...it varies.
A: I don't do casual - I deep dive into whatever I'm exploring. I love learning and being exposed to new things/situations. I don't turn away when I'm nervous - I use it as fuel and dive in.
A: Tricky one! I think it was getting sick while trekking in Peru - something about the beauty of the place made the fact that I was ill, fade into the background. It put things in perspective for me.
A: Travel, exercise, explore, etc.
A: I notice beauty in everything - even the most mundane things. I don't quite understand how most people go throughout their day without noticing the beauty that surrounds them. Even in painful moments there's an odd beauty to be recognized.
A: My "member"...but that's probably the #1 answer on this thing.
I have great eyes, a pretty nice butt. I'm pale, which some guys find sexy. I've been told I have a sexy voice.
This is so subjective - I'll leave it to you to decide.
A: I'm strawberry blond - so I guess my specialty is being halfway between blond and ginger. lol.
I'm also really good at making people feel seen and heard. I love giving my attention to people. I do it as a top, I do it as a bottom, I do it receiving head, I do it giving head.
Sex is communication, no matter how kinky the sex might be: it's primal communication and I love that about it.
A: I LOVE travel, do it relatively often, and hope to see as much of the world as possible before I die.
I love trekking and camping as much as I love laying on a beach, listening to waves crash (note: I'm super pale so I'm single-handedly funding the sunscreen industry).
A: I work out regularly but I'm not a fanatic. If I miss a few days I'm fine. I work out because it feels good and not because I'm dependent on my body to create a sense of self-worth.
Diet? - sometimes I'm keto and sometimes I'm ice cream. Depends on the week/month/year. :-p
A: I'm equally captivated by adventures (sky diving, extreme travel, etc) and quiet nights doing nothing more than cuddling under a blanket, drinking tea (or whiskey), and watching shitty TV.
A: I'm all about being open, available, and vulnerable so there's not too much that I wouldn't share, if asked. I'm an odd mix - I think that's the most unique thing about me. I love to explore new worlds - sports, the arts, adventures, travel, hobbies. I'm eclectic sexually and socially.
A: I'd tell you about how, as a child, I hated swimming but could spend hours walking along the water at the beach, having a conversation with the ocean. I was an introvert through and through and was convinced that I could communicate with the water.
A: My curiosity.
A: Meaningful human interaction (sexual and otherwise)
Nature - I am happiest when surrounded by sky, forest, and water
Music, Theater, Film - the arts, in general
The gym and/or some other form of exercise
Travel
A: I don't tolerate cattiness, judgement, racism, classism, or any "ism", frankly.
Playful banter? - sure, that's fun but if any of the sharp-tongued comments come from a legitimately dark place or are born of insecurity or ignorance then I don't have room for them in my life.
I won't judge you as long as you aren't hurting anyone and consent is across the board. You do you and even if it's not my scene, I'll celebrate it.
I think the community in the 21st century deserves a bit more love and compassion within its own walls.