A: Go out running with my huskies. Go to art events.
A: What clients tend to notice are: big dick, smart, kind, calm and easy going, good clear communication before during and after.
A: I guess I have a few specialities as an -
I tend to get geeky clients; I guess like attracts like.
The combo of both physically and emotionally skilled in bdsm / kinky play is a bit rare I guess. My focus is on the emotional experience the client wants to have, more than on the props or porn cliches.
I am not a therapist, but I have read quite a lot of sexological humanistic psychotherapy theory, and many clients have said they found coming to me complementary to their (sexological) psychotherapy process, and I like this kind of purposeful as well as pleasurable sessions.
A: This summer I was away in northern Scandinavia all summer with my huskies. Two years before that we also went hiking in northern Sweden with a friend for two weeks. I love travelling but can't do >2 days now til after my graduation in June.
A: I have two huskies, so a lot of walking and running. Also gym I'm aiming to do 4 days a week. 2 days a week I do Thuisbezorgd and I use my own bike, not an e-bike. So I'm getting plenty of cardio and legs. I cook ultra healthy mostly, like a microbiome-friendly diet, ultra high fibre and a lot of probiotic fermented foods n drinks. So I'm quite fit, but not a Muscle Queen. ;-)
A: I've always prioritised living adventurously and followed my curiosity. This hasn't yet made me rich but I don't mind that. I'm still a postgrad student and planning on probably doing another 6-7 years of study and research.
A: The only part of sexwork which often stresses me out is trying to be ready on time if I'm hosting or to be there on time if it's an out-call. I have primarily inattentive type ADHD, so consistent exact timing is generally a struggle. Please don't arrive early! You will probably find me vacuuming with one hand while brushing my teeth with the other! ;-) If I'm a bit late I'll always communicate. If you're fairly flexible about this, I'll be in a better state to give you a better service.
A: I think why I get so many repeat or regular clients and good reviews is mainly because of emotional intelligence, more than muscles. My way of doing sexwork is basically to respond out of respect for the person and fulfiling their needs and desires as much as I can, within the session. I don't need clients to be attractive for me. I think that's the magic sauce ingredient.
A: Imagination.