A: I enjoy travel (I was raised in Europe and the east coast of the United States), playing and practicing the electric bass guitar, live music (mostly rock and country shows), watching live hockey games, hiking, cult and midnight movies, riding my motorcycle, and spending time with friends and family.

A: I definitely have an unconventional niche - in that I look like (and am) a biker.

I like to describe myself as a middle-aged bear with a badass streak.

I enjoy helping others push their boundaries and explore their fantasies (or as I like to say: check items off of their "fucketlists").

I offer a judgment-free and sane experiences.

A: Prior to Covid I used to take a trip a month or so. Just to get away and experience another locale and decompress. Strangely, I’d also still call myself a homebody in that when I am gone, I am always excited to come back home.

A: And this is where I am about to lose most of my masculine, bad-ass, gruff caché (or what I had left from my earlier responses)…

So, my diet (which I am sure will shock many of you) is that I am a vegetarian. I very very rarely will have some seafood (like a few times a year), but I do not eat poultry or beef at all. I do joke that the only thing that kept me from being a vegan is that I am still a fat-boy and love vanilla cake with buttercream frosting and ice cream (yes, I know I can get vegan versions of both, but it just isn’t the same).

As far as fitness, I do enjoy time on my elliptical machine and adjustable free weights at home and I also like to go hiking when I can.

A: I’d say I live an urban lifestyle surrounded by art, films, music and books (see? I am full of surprises). It keeps things interesting and allows me access to a variety of experiences, I don’t believe I’d get elsewhere,

I’d say what makes me who I am is being raised in a unconventional family, but also having worked for years in corporate America for a number of companies and brands you’ve heard of and getting myself to a stage in life where I can finally afford to rebel against that way of living and live closer to my truth.

A: It might surprise some to know, but I lived and grew up around the country and abroad - being that I was raised the son of a United States Army officer who had a strong background in international relations (and served several tours as a NATO officer).

This life experience has made me able to easily understand and relate to a variety of situations, locations and people.

A: I honestly hate the beach. I know, it is weird but I never have liked being at the beach. Ironically, I lived for years on both the west and east United States coasts, but can count on one hand how many times I’ve been to the beach in my adult life on one hand. Now if you would like to wine and dine me, it’s simple: get me some weed, beer money and hang with me at a rock show.

A: Other than the fact I fuck like a beast?

Seriously, I know it is easy to assume a lot of me by my looks and demeanor, but I am also fairly intelligent and highly educated. I do tend to surprise people who get to know me how versed and insightful I am about a lot of subjects.

I and extremely loyal and also do tend to care about the people who enter my orbit - often almost unconditionally.

See, I am not just a mean horny bastard? I also have a soul.

A: The obvious one is my cock. I know it’s not the largest, but I love the way it feels when shoved down a sub’s gullet or the way it sounds when I use it on an eager bottom.

I also enjoy my tattoos.My favorite is my devil Ned Flanders tattoo.

I enjoy being a bear. I feel like it has freed me from a lot the pressures imposed upon gay and bi men as to how I look, how I live and how I am supposed to feel about myself. Honestly, I feel free and authentic.

A: Not to read like a total spaz, I am big music buff and couldn’t live without listening to my favorite bands. I would definitely be lost without my iPhone. I definitely enjoy poppers (because who wouldn’t?). I’d die without my Jim Beam and MGD back. And I think I’d die if I couldn’t ride my motorcycle periodically - I refer to it as “wind therapy”