RentMen:
If we sat on the beach and drank wine and ate great food just you and I, what would you tell me about yourself and your life?
Bellator:
I'd tell you that I don't drink wine and that eating on the beach is a recipe for ingesting sand. I don't need booze or rich food or beautiful locations to be honest about my life. If I think something would be illuminating, illustrative, or helpful, I will share it willingly. If I'm asked, I'll reply honestly.
RentMen:
What are your lifestyle specifics that makes who you are?
Bellator:
1) Excellence: I'm nearly incapable of doing things halfway. Whatever I'm doing, I seek to excel at it. Whatever responsibilities I take on, I take it seriously, though others may see it as a remedial task.
2) Energy: I get up before the sun to hit the gym and by the time I'm there I'm in overdrive. It took me many years to learn how to relax (mindfulness meditation) fully because I'm constantly on Go.
3) Efficiency: I love streamlining things, makings them more convenient for myself an other people.
4) Compassion: I have a huge heart.
5) Passion: try me and find out,
RentMen:
What distinguishes you from all the other people you know?
Bellator:
Resilience. Which is not to say that none of the other people I know are resilient, but simply that I have had mine tested harshly and repeatedly and I have come out stronger and with greater integrity as a result.
RentMen:
What is your specialty?
Bellator:
Assuming this means sexual niche, I suppose mine would be versatility (and I don't mean simply that I perform both roles). I thoroughly enjoy some very aggressive role play scenes. I love gear and fetish play. I'm also a fan of passionate touch and making out and doing things slowly. The guy I'm with dictates the niche of the moment: some guys meet me and they want me to be their bottom boy, some want me to hold them down and take it, others are after a mutual exchange of roles. I'm a highly sexual being just looking for direction.
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