I want the ideal balance of intensity & tenderness
Great encounter:
* kissing throughout
* warming up with caressing, oral & rimming
* start slow & build intensity. I love having raunchy porn-style sex but have to build up that trust and comfort level first
* dirty talk throughout to build the fantasy
* partner takes the lead & changes things up
* Always reading my body language. Breaks as needed
* saving time for aftercare: cuddling, kissing & talking are essential for me to recover from intense sex & make a connection