If I like it then you should LOVE IT.
Every friendship and/or relationship involves 2-way communication. If I’m not into it or like then I don’t say that I am. Your résumé/profile should express the same. I prefer a BFE experience that have Prix Fixe menus vs Á la Carte. That is, if the special isn’t offered then it shouldn’t be on Today’s Menu. That alone reduces back and forth questions.
Don’t expect donations if your time includes checking posts, texts, I-watch notifications and the like. Just say no, “I’m not available during that time.” Personally, I’d prefer to give handouts to the homeless or Goodwill for the tax deductions. I’m sure you agree that those who make donations should be ensured it’s for a worthy cause. Cheers 🥂.