A: I'm really empathetic, so it's hard for me not to absorb what's going on around me. Luckily, I surround myself with really great people, so I'm usually absorbing something enriching.
A: I drink tea, and brew kombucha, and arrange plant cuttings for my house. There are a couple amazing television shows I get into. If you are open to movies, I have some favorites I'd love to watch with you.
A: I support those around me by doing tasks that are often neglected. E.g. I'm committed to emptying every dish drying rack that I see.
A: Walk around in the woods. Throw my body into others'. Cook delicious food. Dig in the dirt.
A: Some of the best experiences I've had have been the hardest. I have grown a lot from traveling and living abroad, and frequently throwing caution to the wind to satisfy wanderlust. But my mind immediately goes to snuggly conversations about meaning and experience with folks I really resonate with.
A: I have a complicated fundamental view of reality, desire, and meaning. Too much to say here, but here's a teaser: I chose to be gay, and I think everyone deserves the freedom to make that choice.
A: People seem to like my booty, milky skin, ginger hair, and cum-gutters. And I'm told I am a good "first". I make the people around me feel safe and cared for. You're the only person in the world when we're together.
A: I have a real fetish for exploration. I want to show you how even if you have "done this before" it can be new again and again. And if you have something to show me, I want to go there with you.
I think I'm especially good at bringing a sense of ease to things that, for some, feel abnormal or too extreme.
A: The time I spend relaxing at home fuel my sense of adventure. In fact, I end up making my vacations a lot like home with an eye toward comfort even on the road. Exploring a new place is best when it's organic and local; I like exploring the place right outside the hotel, and following the rabbit trails to juicy human moments happening all around us. My experience in China and Taiwan have given me a tolerance for the unknown. Covid has really put a damper on travel, but my passport is still valid, and I'm looking forward to getting my feet on the ground in Greece, Egypt, and Israel for the first time in 2023!
A: I bike everywhere. I get in the gym for squats and dead-lifts every other day. I eat really good food. I find ease in a yoga class or a walk in the park.
A: Healthy food, meaningful relationships, polyamory, active lifestyle (cyclist), and a light-hearted but deep relationship with ritual.
A: I'm new to the fetish world, but oh-so-curious!
A: My sordid past with Christianity, and how there is magic in each and every moment.
A: I am really this sincere.
A: Versatility. I get along with lots of different types of people, and can roll with the changes in the world with more ease than I ever have before.
A: Veggies, tea, alone time, time with trees, headphones.