Ballrooms to Dungeons :)
I am a small town southern boi, trying to survive in the big city of Chicago. Yes, I have an accent let's just get that out of the way :) I am educated and in grad school. I am genuinely a sweet guy, I have a pretty wide eyed positive view most of the time, but not before coffee:) I exude sexual confidence and am not ashamed of my body, or my sexual interests.
Things to know about me:
1) Typically date older men, so finding a connection is natural for me. While some people will never find you attractive due to your age or enjoy their time with you, I can honestly say that I am not likely one of them.
2) Open to everyone, and love vanilla play and cuddling. BFE experiences too.
3) Safe Kinkster. I do not make it a habit to judge or pathologize fetishes. However, I do judge behavior that is not safe, sane, or consensual. I use these three prongs when I weigh out a scene.
4) I am not a novice. Don't let my age fool you, I have played with some of the most well known kinksters in the United States.
5) I am a switch, and have a lot of experience as a Dom and a sub. Have owned my own boys. I don't put on a harness and parade around pretending to be "soooo kinky."
6) You should always look for experience if exploring kink even if I am not your guide. Safe words should be law, and addressed.
7) Confidentiality and discretion are not just buzz words to me.
8) I use full sentences, please do the same :)
9) Registered users only please.
10) If you have a gender pronoun preference, please tell me. Trans-inclusivity in all spaces, at all times.
Look to my hashtags for hints of my interests, better yet, send me a message!