A: I don't believe in the concept of "spare time;" I do not have some time in my life that is for me and other time that I mark as belonging to others. I structure my life so that all of my time is spent doing things that I find enriching and worthwhile. With that being said, I typically spend my time reading, working on various creative projects, and (of course) exploring the complex nature of human sexuality.
A: I have a keen eye for detail. So, I go the extra mile with pretty much anything I decide to do. I graduated from college with highest honors and a distinguished thesis because I am intelligent, but also because I only put my name on things that I am confident are exceptional.
A: My smile. And sometimes my fashion.
A: I take my physical wellbeing seriously, so I am sure to maintain a balanced diet and exercise regularly. My fitness regimen consists mostly of yoga and bodyweight exercises because my goal is mobility, strength, and bodily presence. I have had periods of highly intense physical training, but am at a point in my life where I have many other ways that I would prefer to spend my time than being in a gym for multiple hours each day.
A: 1. Inspiring company
2. Candles
3. Sunshine
4. Leather boots
5. Good books
A: I would probably tell you about authors who inspire me (Jean Genet, Ursula Le Guin, Simone Weil, Kurt Vonnegut, and Albert Camus to name a few); how I feel when I am exploring my limits or pushing someone else's; and my visions for a different world.
A: I grew up on a farm in rural south Louisiana, which means that I carry Southern charm and hospitality with me wherever I go. It also means that I take the Cajun philosophy of enjoying life ("laissez les bon temps rouler") very seriously.
A: My niche is curious and creative people who understand that pleasure and pain are two expressions of the same experience; that fear can be liberatory when explored in a healthy environment; and that our sexuality is more expansive than what most people engage with.
A: I enjoyed traveling regularly before COVID. Just like I enjoy sexual experimentation, I value changing my scenery as a way of connecting to different parts of myself. Especially as a country boy who has lived in cities for the past several years, I deeply value time to escape into nature and ground myself. However, I also like to sink into my space when I am home. I put a lot of energy into curating the space where I live so that I am able to enjoy lounging and reading around the house when I want.
A: Kink is a spiritual practice for me. This does not mean that I expect everyone whom I engage in kink with to view it similarly. However, I think it is important for people to understand the sort of creative and reverent perspective I carry with me into sessions. Kink play moves beyond anal and oral sexual acts as a method of exploring the fullness of our sexuality and unlocking different parts of ourselves. I believe that exploring ourselves, especially in a sexual context, is a sacred practice that deserves care and attention.
A: My non-bedroom fun time is spent camping, creating, exploring, and dancing with friends and lovers. My bedroom fun time...well maybe you will find that out for yourself.