A: When I go to the mall, I outright refuse to hold my own shopping bags. So much so that I have, and still do pay folx to go shopping with me just so they hold my bags while I go from store to store. LOL
A: What someone is comfortable enough to do around you, they are willing enough to do it to you -- R.Blck
Boundries are SOOO important in life, and they are always, 100% of the time about the person whose boundry it is. There are certain behaviors I will NOT accept around me, and this I do not engage in this behavior either. On the flipside I hold myself to a different standard and will not accept anything less. ;) <3
A: Read, I read a lot of books, and i have a secret hobby that I MAY let you in on one day. :)
A: Nothing in particular makes me stand out from the crowd, yet that same nothing is how I stand out from the crowd. I have a motto that I live by, "Be Selfishly; Selfless".
Meaning in order for me to show up for my friends, family, folx, fcks in my ENTIRITY;
I first need to show up for myself, with myself, and to myself.
<3
A: I try to travel as often as possible... even with MISS CODY VICTORIA running amok I just cant sit still for too long.
When I am at home I am a home body - like when I am in Grand Rapids, I am at MY HOME, READING, SLEEPING, EATING, ETC.
When I am out & about I am exploring - like when I am in YOUR city, I am soaking up the sun, trying local foods, walking around etc.
A: Do Tacos, and Netflix count??
Its a blessing and a curse to be naturally thin... I can eat whatever I want, and yet I still get accused of having some kind of eating disorder or another...
In all seriouseness I eat ALL THE TIME, and Traditional Mexican Lengua Tacos are my fav!!
A: My lifestyle is controlled chaos. It's kind of like Mambo Number 5. Great Song, but sporadic, but also you can't not dance when it pops onto the radio! :) I love to sing badly while I clean, and I rearrange my home every 1-3 months. :) It's a good life, its my life!:)
A: My biggest fear is being home during a home invasion and I don't eat any green or yellow colored candy. The first one is kind of obvious, but as far as the candy goes... I am CONVINCED (albeit self convinced) that green and yellow colored candy is poisonous.
I don't know why or how or when that occurred, but all I know is I ain't risking my life for no green skittle.
<3
A: Besides eat tacos and explore music, I have been reading a lot more. In 2022 I am only going to be reading queer and/or Black authors, so feel free to recommend something. :)
A: There is not one moment I can choose to be "the best moment" there are too many, however I once saw a romantic movie where the lead casually asked their potential new love interest an amazing question... They asked,"Imagine you can bottle memories like you can bottle up a scent, so that anytime you want to relive it all you had to do was open the bottle; if you could, what memory would you want to preserve"?
A: My greatest personal traits would have to be my unwavering sense of self, & creating a space of comfort for all that have the pleasure to enter.
A: I love music... Yes ALLL genres of music, and I also ask super random/dumb questions in order to get to know folxs on a deeper level.
Example: If the "Purge" was put in place in the real world would you participate, and how, and why?!
See random, but it makes you think and open up to unlimited possibilities! :)
A: My "niche" is I am just that boy-next-door type, but with a couple of hidden secrets... ;)
A: I am comfortable with being vulnerable with myself and others.
A: I enjoy my authenticty the most about myself. A lot of people say they are "real", but in all honesty they are simply trying to hide behind a facade that only showcases their "good" qualities. When I say I am authentic I am saying I am flawed, I am human, I am growing!
A: Hulu, Lyft, Music, Tacos, Beer