A: Make art, lift weights, go to the beach and hike

A: Does sex count? I try not to obsess about that kind of stuff, but I do go to the gym three times a week, flirt with yoga and boxing, and try to eat sensibly and sustainably.

A: I'm an artist, so I spend a lot of my free time in my studio. I also watch a lot of movies and read constantly, mostly about art, science fiction and politics. I try to go into nature as much as possible (harder in New York than California) and love cooking and baking. I'm also very happy trying new food and drinking nice cocktails

A: Physically, there are certain things that certain people are attracted to, and we can all fit those roles to some extent for some people. But I like to think I'm good at what I do because I actually enjoy it, a lot, and that let's me be as intimate and real as possible with the people I meet.

A: I love traveling, and visit friends and family on the west coast and down south at least twice a year. But as I'm finishing graduate school, the opportunities are less than I'd like.

A: I'm a very empathetic person. It's what lead me to many spots in my life, and part of why I love the kind of work I do. For me it's an opportunity to have fun with someone and make them feel taken care of, in as many ways as possible.