A: One of the most impactful experiences I've ever had was winning a contest for over $25,000 for a charity I've spent the last 10 years working with. Knowing how that money would be used for good is something that I can't fully put into words but I'd love to tell you more in person!
A: That music has the ability to give me goosebumps. That an effective speech can move to do great things. That I'm able to perceive that "vibe" between myself and someone I'm with. I'm finding that in my encounters with men from this website, many of them tell me how other guys they've met with are only present for the "mechanics" of the situation. This disappoints me because I really enjoy getting to know someone and connecting with them.
A: I try to just make common sense diet choices. I've tried following a strict meal plan but I find that unless you're doing a bodybuilding show or something like that it's a lot of work and isn't sustainable for a long period of time. Overall I'd say I just try to eat a lot of protein and if I can swap carbs for a vegetable then I'll do that.
For my fitness regime, I have been doing Crossfit and lifting weights for the past while. This seems to be the best for my body. I try to stay as "beefy" as I can, without putting on too much body fat. My goal is to maintain as much muscle mass while getting leaner. I love a thicc look with nice body hair! Woof.
A: Who doesn't like to travel?? But I don't get to as much as I would like. I recently left the US for the first time and would love to experience even more countries!
A: 1) Fry sauce!! (Ask me)
2) House Music
3) If I'm at the gym, headphones
4) My friends
5) The knowledge that I'm making and achieving my life goals!
A: I’d say the bear scene for sure but I love the LGBTQ+ community as a whole. I think a lot of guys are into the “masc” vibe that I give off, but I’m very adaptable
A: Currently a full time grad student, so that’s the majority of my life right now. Other than that I’m not really too attached to anything. I’m open to exploring new people and places!
A: Full time student, so hobbies are rare at the moment but kickball is a hoot.
A: I’m a real guy. I fuck like a porn star, cuddle like a teddy bear, AND your mom will fall in love with me.
A: I was raised a Jehovah’s Witness. Always willing to process the coming out process and self acceptance with anyone else struggling as part of an oppressive organization or life. I very much enjoy talking with others who have this experience or who have questions about what it was like. I used to struggle to talk about it and would get frustrated by the amount of time I feel I lost following that faith, but I also know that I wouldn't be who I am today without going through that.
A: Overcoming adversity. Learning to accept my authentic self and how my biggest goal in life is to help others do the same. I'd probably say a lot of cheesy one liners about loving yourself and wanting to know more about you and how you think. You'd walk away from our glass of wine on the beach wondering how it is that someone like me even exists in this world. ;)