A: I love storytelling and learning to get better at it. This includes telling a story in a single picture, writing a screenplay, and telling stories live on stage, which I am lucky enough to have done a few times.
A: By saying, 'no,' as often as I can so that when I say, 'yes,' I have the capacity to give whatever it is I said yes to my very best.
A: I am fortunate enough to have had a wonderful life and I cannot pick one of a bunch of incredible experiences, but I can say that one landmark outstanding experience was the first time someone tied me up. I can't go into details here, but I'll be happy to tell you the story in person.
A: Besides my ass? I look at things differently most of the time, to the extent that it has made some people, including me, wonder if I'm on the autism spectrum (I'm fairly sure I'm not).
Also, I am naturally inclined to adopt a growth mindset in a world that does a lot to discourage everyone from doing that. And if you don't know what a growth mindset is I strongly encourage you to find out and adopt one for yourself.
A: What makes me who I am are the people I have been lucky enough to call my friends. Without them I wouldn't be half the man I am today. My lifestyle is built around trying to serve my own needs, in accordance with the advice we are always given during the in flight safety talk (ensure your oxygen mask is on before helping others with theirs) and trying to serve the needs of the people I love.
I also spend a lot of time walking our rescue dogs, who can both be a handful.
A: My niche is building a connection, because without connection very few things are half as amazing as they are when you have it.
A: I studied English Literature at a good university, so I'm well educated. I'm worldly wise but not jaded or up my own ass. I'm tough as nails when I need to be but very empathic and kind. I'm an all round good guy and fun to play with - I have been described by others as, 'Sexual Disneyland' and also 'Kinky Oprah'. And I'll take that.
A: Walk my dogs, hang out with my chosen family, watch brilliant shows and try to advance my own career in storytelling.
Working out is a bit of a chore, but it is also something that I know helps keep me sane, as well as feeling good about myself.
A: I'm a good listener, even if I do say so myself.
I also know what I know and know what I don't, which is one of my best qualities as a Daddy. Too many people think they know it all and will spout advice from a font of ignorance. I know a lot, but if I don't know then I won't pretend that I do.
I have picked up a lot of skills in kink play, though there is always room for improvement, and I love both passing on what I have learned and learning more.
A: I love travel. I'm based in the USA and I'm happy to travel anywhere in the world to meet a client.
A: I'm very easy going, non-judgmental - dirty minded but sweet natured and caring.
I am highly versatile and dynamic, capable of adapting to a wide range of people and situations, but one thing is constant, whether an encounter is a dinner date or a full Leather Dom experience - I maintain and expect common decency and respect.
I understand that the experience most people want with a 'big bad leather Dom' is one where they feel safe and at the same time a little bit scared.
If that is what you are looking for, my aim is to make you feel safe enough to ask for that thing you are afraid of asking for, and then make you glad that you did.
If you are nervous and you are in danger of letting your nerves get the better of you, then I will tell you what I have told many other people. In time, when you have had a bit more experience, you won't feel so nervous, but the funny thing is that you will miss feeling nervous. So instead of wishing you weren't so nervous, enjoy those nerves. Make them part of the excitement.
Lastly, I want you to describe the experience you want with me, but I will not sext with people I have not met. I only indulge in that when you have shown you are serious.
A: I can juggle four balls, knives and fire clubs. I also have four nipples. Only the main ones work and the second pair are barely noticeable.
A: It depends on what would be the most relevant thing to tell you at the time. I might tell you a personal story relating to something we just talked about, that I'd hope would be entertaining, inspirational or both. But it might be more appropriate to ask you a question that I think you need someone to ask you, or tell you a fun fact like this: the song 'Super Trooper' is named after a brand of spotlight used back in the day that ABBA were touring.
A: I aim to eat every 2-3 hours and train at least a little every day.
In reality I don't quite manage this, but if you aim for the stars...
A: Exercising and refining my ability to curate the experience of my life, which can be a bit like steering a ship, understanding there are forces you cannot control, but things you can do to avoid being shipwrecked and generally point yourself in the right direction.
Also my ability to not take myself at all seriously and be very, very silly.
A: Protein, sex, friends, music, art (in all forms). I'm assuming that oxygen, water and basic sustenance are a given.