DaddyLance's Pornstar Interview

My Pornstar Interview
Philadelphia | May 7-11
Columbus, OH | May 12-15

I DON’T use the messaging app here, so please go to my website, DaddyLance.com, review scheduling and session info, then email me from there.

I’ve been doing massage and sex therapy for over 13 years and am deeply passionate about my work. I bring to my clients an expansive knowledge, but most importantly I bring a tremendous amount of love, compassion, understanding and acceptance.

I have had the honor of working with so many wonderful men, who come to me from very different places in their erotic and spiritual journey. I also have absolutely no hangups about a client's age, size, ethnicity, abilities, etc. I've worked with cis & trans men (and a few women) as young as 19 and as old as 91, from 120 lbs to over 400. I am HIV-, on PrEP and am comfortable with guys who are positive or negative, I also respect each individual's safety preferences. My intention is that everyone who comes to me will leave feeling honored, nurtured and loved.
Q: What do you do for fun?

A: I enjoy remaining active, whether that means walking around the amazing city I call home, going to the gym or playing softball (I play on the Gay SF League.) I enjoy reading, prefer comedic memoirs, Sedaris and Burroughs are a few of my favorites, but I also enjoy books on anthropology, spirituality, neurobiology, sociology and of course SEX!

I love to travel, especially to places that are warm. I get to Palm Springs 3-4 times a year and my partner and I go to Puerto Vallarta every year. I also travel to the east coast a fair amount and try to get to NYC at least once a year.

I enjoy live theatre and music, and try to see as much local theatre as I can, and also a few touring shows each year. I also just got my first motorcycle, after just 8 short years of having had my motorcycle license. I love the feeling of freedom that it brings and its a great excuse to wear leather too.

Q: Tell us about the best experience you have had in life.

A: Probably the trip I took in October 2014 to Vietnam and Cambodia. It was my partners idea and was not a place I had ever thought about visiting, but it was life changing. The temples of Siem Reap were incredible, and being welcomed by villagers who were so happy even though they had very little materialistically, was enlightening. It all gave me enormous appreciation for what I have, but also clarity that "things" don't make one happy. Happiness comes from acceptance, family, love, light and connection.

This trip also gave me the travel bug and now I really want to plan another big trip. I would love to start doing more traveling with clients, so I am hoping more of those opportunities will present themselves for that.

Q: How do you go the 'Extra Mile' in your life?

A: I just try to give all the energy to someone that they need. For some, this can be exhausting for me spiritual and energetically, but it's what I do, and I can recoup easily enough.

Q: What would you say are your greatest attributes?

A: A lot of questions about "specialities"! I know that I will never have the most ripped bod, the flattest stomach, or the biggest cock (though it IS big). If I went through my life comparing myself to others, I could become a pretty unhappy person. I feel I have a pretty big heart, and I am not afraid to share that. I hope only to inspire others to love themselves deeper and in doing so, spread more love into the world.

Q: What is your specialty?

A: As I have said in other questions, I prefer a session that is sensual, intimate and passionate, and anytime I have a session that allows time for some bodywork, it feels nice, cause I am able to share all my skills.

Q: What are your lifestyle specifics that makes who you are?

A: Even when I am busy, I still have a good amount of free time, and I have a hard time setting still. I try to make it to the gym at least 4-5 times a week, I come from a family where everyone is overweight, so I have to really keep at it to stay in shape and avoid "the genetic betrayal that is my legacy". I enjoy photography, writing, live theatre, concerts, hiking/camping and traveling (when the opportunity and finances allow it).

Q: How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or are you more of a homebody?

A: I travel about every 2 months, usually for a week, sometimes two. I love traveling, but I love SF even more, so I miss it when I'm gone... hell, I miss it within minutes of take-off

Q: What kind of diet and fitness regimen do you follow?

A: I try to work out about 5 days a week, some weeks its more like 6 and others (especially when Im traveling), it's closer to 1. Even days when I dont work out, I try to do something to take care of my body, either yoga, stretching, or self-massage.

Q: If we sat on the beach and drank wine and ate great food just you and I, what would you tell me about yourself and your life?

A: I would probably tell ya a little bit about my perspectives on life and what happiness means to me. I would tell you about my expereriences working in retail management and how the transition from that to ing was a scary one (as change always is), but how I have arrived at my ultimate happiness because of it. I would probably talk a bit about theatre, as it is a big interest and also my experience riding in Aids Lifecycle, which I've done the last 5 years and from which I have some great stories.

Q: What should others absolutely know about you?

A: That I am perhaps one of the kindest and most caring/compassionate men you will ever meet. I have been told by some that I am intimidating on a physical level, but everyone that I've ever seen has commented on how comfortable and easy my spirit is.

Q: What do you enjoy most about yourself?

A: I feel, more than I ever have in my life, that I have the opportunity to really help people, my sharing with them my energy, touch, and knowledge. I get to see men at their most vulnerable and be part of the greatest pleasure the body can feel, and I find it incredibly beautiful.

Q: What are 5 things you can’t live without?

A: Love, purpose, passion, sex, and my Iphone

DaddyLance

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Location: St. Petersburg, FL
I am traveling to:
07 May - May 10 Philadelphia, PA
12 May - May 15 Columbus, OH
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