A: Group play and exploratory experiences have been a large part of my work. I’m bi/pan and I love guiding new, questioning, curious, or DL patrons through their wildest fantasies.
A: You’ll never meet anyone quite like me.
A: I try to travel a couple times a month. I love seeing new places, but I also love the comfort of my home and my routine.
A: I’m really big on saying exactly what you want. Consent is so important to me. I’ll never do anything without making sure it feels good for you, and I expect the same. I’m a total freak when we have that level of mutual respect ;)
A: I’d probably brag that I used to be a chef in high end restaurants, and try to impress you with my food knowledge and impeccable palate.
A: When I’m passionate about something, I can also be a perfectionist. I don’t want to just dabble in something, I let it consume me. I demand that my results are impressive, and I hold myself to a higher standard than everyone else.
A: Coffee
Music
Touch/affection
Good food
Did I say coffee?
A: My empathy, compassion, and ability to connect and relate to people and the world around me. I can find myself in any crowd. I believe the best in people until they show me otherwise. I always strive to treat people how I want to be treated.
A: I drink way too much caffeine, probably don’t eat breakfast often enough, and I generally eat whatever I want. I work my body hard every day, picking up trash and junk, hauling trees, and moving heavy things, so it keeps me pretty fit and I burn a lot of calories. Most weeks I make it to the gym a few times too. Does that count as a regiment?
A: I play several instruments and am usually in a few bands at any given time, with genres anywhere from folk to metal. I also carve bone and make jewelry, and I enjoy carpentry, metal working, and lots of other crafty endeavors. Did I mention I’m also a pro daydreamer?
A: I’m an avid porch or fire pit sitter. Relaxing under the stars with a warm beverage and a smoke, among good friends and lovers, is one of my favorite pastimes. I love playing and hearing live music and comedy shows, and I love any activity outdoors and in nature. I also love to cook and bake!
A: I’ve never been one to follow the crowd, so I suppose it’s mostly my opposition to authority. I have laser eyes that can see through bullshit, and I’ve never cared to play along. I think people notice that, and there’s a confidence I carry that makes me stand out. I’ve been told I inspire and encourage, which feels amazing to hear, even if it’s just a byproduct of my inability to conform to the status quo.
A: I live a pretty radical lifestyle compared to most. My commitment to my values has led me to adopt a lifestyle that’s unconventional; being non-monogamous, sexually and romantically open, being my own boss, and pursuing my passions and the things that bring me joy. I’m just incapable of living otherwise.
A: My ability to connect with others. After all, why else are we here in the first place? I believe what makes the human experience so rich is the ways we interact.